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kindle ↠ Loving to Survive Sexual Terror Men's Violence and Women's Lives Feminist Crosscurrents ß Dee L.R. Graham Men and womenIn 1973 three women and one man were held hostage in one of the largest banks in Stockholm by two ex convicts These two men threatened their lives but also showed them kindness Over the course of the long ordeal the hostages came to identify with their captors developing an emotional bond with them They began to perceive the police their prospective liberators as their enemies and their captors as their friends as a source of security This seemingly bizarre reaction to captivity in which the hostages and captors mutually bond to one another has been documented in other cases as well and has become widely known as Stockholm SyndromeThe authors of this book take this syndrome as their starting point to develop a new way of looking at male female relationships Loving to Survive considers men's violence against women as crucial to understanding women's current psychology Men's violence creates ever present and therefore often unrecognized terror in women This terror i This should be mandatory reading in high school I desperately urge any

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Loving to Survive Sexual Terror Men's Violence and Women's Lives Feminist CrosscurrentsS often experienced as a fear for any woman of rape by any man or as a fear of making any man angry They propose that women's current psychology is actually a psychology of women under conditions of captivitythat is under conditions of terror caused by male violence against women Therefore women's responses to men and to male violence resemble hostages' responses to captorsLoving to Survive explores women's bonding to men as it relates to men's violence against women It proposes that like hostages who work to placate their captors lest they kill them women work to please men and from this springs women's femininity Femininity describes a set of behaviors that please men because they communicate a woman's acceptance of her subordinate status Thus feminine behaviors are in essence survival strategies Like hostages who bond to their captors women bond to men in an effort to surviveThis is a book that will forever change the way we look at male female relationships and women's live The book focuses on a law of behavior Stockholm Syndrome Basically it m